21 "Not Everyone Gets Tingles" and "Do You Know How It Feels To Do It On Your Own?"

Guest1: [00:00:00] I've gotten a lot of really strange requests that I've had to deny because people are just really, really weird. So there's that side as well. There's a lot of fetishes I didn't know existed until I started doing it somewhere, which was quite weird to me. Someone asked me to get into a bath with all my clothes on, and I thought that was really weird. So I said no to that, and they offered quite a bit for that. And then someone also asked me to pretend that I ate them and like, rub my stomach.

And I had to say no to that as well because I just thought that was really weird. What the hell is my job? Think because not everyone gets tangles, it's kind of hard for them to, like, really understand what it is. So then they can resort to, oh, it's just a sexual thing. Or it's weird because they don't get the sensation. So a lot of people just think it's a sexual thing.

But I feel like that's for people who don't understand what it is. But I'm also hearing like it can turn people on, like, obviously not on purpose, but it just happens. So there's also that. But I feel like people who think it's mainly a sexual thing just don't really understand what it is. I can't really remember the first time I experienced Asmr. I think it was just like someone whispering in my ear, literally like in person. And then I kind of felt something from that. Or just like when I was in the classroom in high school, like I'd hear like the teacher typing or like people writing. And I kind of felt it from that. But I'd say I get it from both sounds and visuals, but mainly sound. I'd say, it's kind of therapeutic in a way, which is why I quite like in Summer as well. I feel it's really calming. Last year, like I started seeing Asmr, like on TikTok a lot. I'd seen it before TikTok, like it came across like a YouTube video that was Asmr, but I didn't understand what it was and I was just really confused.

So then I just didn't go back to it. And then it became really big on TikTok and I thought, oh, this is quite cool. And then I just kind of thought about doing it and I was like, oh, maybe I should try and do that. I used to stream games on Twitch, and my viewers would say that I should try and do it. So I was like, you know, I might as well trying to. And I do tell people I don't really go out my way to tell them, like if they ask me or if they've like seen stuff and they ask me like, oh, do you do Asmr? Then I'll be like, yeah, I do, but I wouldn't like go my way just because I don't know. I feel like a lot of people just don't understand it and they just think it's strange. So with custom videos, I try and make it more personal to the person who wants a custom video. Whereas, you know, with YouTube I try and make it more of a public thing, less personal to people watching, but also kind of personal at the same time, if that makes sense. So I'd say that's the main difference between them.

That's fun. I like the mukbang stuff because it's literally just me eating my lunch and then talking. I'd say they're probably like the easiest videos to make because you're just chatting and eating and just feels like you're eating with someone. People will ask me like, oh, can you do a mukbang of you like eating salads? And it would just be me eating salads and talking or like just anything like people do, like fast food as well, or like just different types of food. So that's basically what that is. You simply just eat something and you also just talk, or you can just eat and not talk at all, like, but like you can hear the sounds of like the food and like the chewing and stuff. I personally don't get it from food, but I do make Asmr food content, but that doesn't do it for me. Yeah, I was eating McDonald's at one point. That actually done like, well for my channel. I was surprised that people would want to watch it. I would want to get more viewers, but I don't know, I just kind of post whenever on my YouTube channel and just hope for the best. I don't really promote my YouTube channel. I used to promote my YouTube a lot on discord, but now I just kind of just upload and just see what happens. I think it makes it less stressful if you're just like, you know, well, I'll just post when I can.

I'd say right now it's just a side hustle, but in the future, it would be cool if it could turn into like a job. I don't really consider a job right now, but yeah, just say it's a side hustle. I'm in college right now. Well, I am doing a filmmaking course, so I would want to go into the film industry for my course. And I mean, since I'm making YouTube videos is kind of similar, I guess. But, I would want to go in and to film and then, I don't know, I'm just going to see where my Asmr stuff goes. I'd still want to continue doing that as well. I do have some friends who do Asmr, like online, but they're for Twitch. But since I've not streamed in quite a while, I've just not spoken to them. But, I'm friends with some people. Yeah, I'm not really. I don't really know them that well. It was more of, they just found my channel and they were like, oh, you did Asmr as well. That's cool. Let's follow each other. I know give Asmr is really big on on YouTube. She has like 4 million. I think she's the most famous Asmr artist because I know people who don't watch Asmr. They'll always talk about her. They'll be like, oh, Dino GB's mama. And I'll be like, yeah, cause I think she's been doing it for like years or something. Assurances, rich. [00:05:43][343.7]

Naty: [00:05:48] Hey folks, it's Naty we'll be back with more right after this break. What the hell is my job? [00:05:59][10.8]

Guest2: [00:06:00] Skip tracing? Well, it's how to fetch the details off people involved. Meaning you can extract the files of the homeowners with every street or different address, you know, different zip codes, or you could have them involved, and you have to pay first to do it. And then there are ways you could have the data extracted for free, you know, but that takes a long time because you got to copy paste things. But, skip tracing is finding people. A year back, I was working for someone who was on Fiverr doing this thing, which I'm doing, real estate texting. But the guy I worked for, oh my God, that was a it was it was a very bad experience for my life.

But I learned how to make money on my own doing this thing because I was managing his team, but I wasn't getting paid. You know, I had to ask for my wages and I had to request employees to send me my money. But the guy was not a good person, not professional at all. So I just left him and started doing my own. And ever since, man, I'm rocking, you know, because I did it all.

Do you know how it feels to do it on your own..?

Well, it changed my standard of living for sure, from just like I'm at a hotel room and I especially checked into a hotel for this podcast, for 15 minutes. That's what it changed me into, for sure. I'm in Pakistan, unfortunately. How do I put it? You cannot succeed if you if you are from a different world. You know what I mean. It's like for a creative thinker, for a free person like me, there's no space in here because people are very religious, but they're not religious in the real religious form, because they don't know the truth.

They're just based on assumptions and they think that's the inside of it. But I love the land. The North of Pakistan. Oh, yeah. So, so beautiful. But I'm starting my journey to move out this month. In fact, today's a blessed day. I got my visa for Azerbaijan if you heard of it. So yeah, I'm traveling with my girlfriend this month and my plan is to just travel the whole world starting this month. Yes. And as a Saggitarius, you know I love traveling. I cannot sit at one place and I cannot be, you know, just I cannot be controlled. I prefer being an outlaw or outcast, you know, just leave me the hell alone. That's pretty much it.

Well, the first thing is the visa to get out of Pakistani. It's very easy because you can have electronic visas and send it direct to your email in three days. Plus it's a cheap country to visit. Or it's something that I can afford initially. That's why I choose that. Plus, I want to visit Georgia. It's one of my other dream places. And the Georgia's embassy is either in India or Azerbaijan, in Baku, the capital. So that's what my plan is to visit their embassy as well.

I wanted to be a musician. Honestly, I'm very passionate about music. I love rap, hip hop, rock and the Beatles. Man, I wanted to be that. But since this work, now I can achieve my dreams because I'm earning. But at the same time, it's very hard to manage time, so I'm pretty unsure of what I would end up doing in life if I don't set a team up, which is very hard to do so.

But if I ever get a chance, I'll do what I like and explore the world and share my thoughts about it in the form of music or melody.

Friends? I don't have much friends. I just have one girlfriend and she's with me for four years. Other than that, I don't. I don't know people. I hate people, honestly. I'm sorry, but, yeah, that's the truth. She is with me. I don't like her to do work. So that's why I just, you know, I'll be the man of the house. She just parties and chills. But at the same time, our ultimate goal is to build a ministry in the long run for orphans and the animal community, especially in animals, shelters. And that's what our initial goal is. And she's where she will be with me, working on this same project, expanding if that gets expanded or not. But she's pretty much around me and I'm pretty much around her.

I spend out of a week, five days at a hotel and two days at home because I love my dog and she misses me too. But apart from it, I like staying at the hotel. It's quiet here. I mean, there's no one here. In Pakistan. It's very different. We don't have like, separated families, you know, once you get to 18, you’re allowed to go wherever. That's not like here. It's like there's one home living. But on the, on the elite side, the people who have money to, you know, send their people or children outside of the country, then they have freedom. But our family's here. Our tradition and culture is very, you know, connected to each other just like Indians.

I don't know what that happened! Oh, my God, that's great! Let me turn on my flashlight. Oh, here it comes back. See, that's what Pakistan I hate… The electricity just went out at a freaking four star hotel. Wow. I paid them. I'm sorry. [00:12:52][412.1]

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